I'm experiencing the same phenomena and it doesn't surprise me one bit I am a little saddened to say.One thing i've noticed while getting healthier. People treat me different. I'm in sales. And I swear, my close rate is improved since looking healthier. It could be that my confidence is a factor. But more than likely, it's because I look better...
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I get that. From a social standpoint, it's easier. But when it affects your professional life, it's easy to welcome the shift.🙂I am noticing the same thing and honestly it's freaking me out a little, I think I was more comfortable being invisible.
Dude! This just happened to me twice this week. Two different ladies scanned me and did double takes and smiled. I am not used to that kind of attention. I am married and in my 50's but it was still nice and unexpected.One thing i've noticed while getting healthier. People treat me different. I'm in sales. And I swear, my close rate is improved since looking healthier. It could be that my confidence is a factor. But more than likely, it's because I look better...
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same ❤️I am noticing the same thing and honestly it's freaking me out a little, I think I was more comfortable being invisible.
I believe it is because most people are shallow, I never paid attention to what your screen name is until you said you're skinnier. So there's that!One thing i've noticed while getting healthier. People treat me different. I'm in sales. And I swear, my close rate is improved since looking healthier. It could be that my confidence is a factor. But more than likely, it's because I look better...
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LOL, yeah dude it freaks you out when that sort of stuff happens. One of my employees wife said "hey your looking good" to me with in ear shot of him. I have never seen anyone shoot such a angry if looks could kill stair EVER!!! But the comment was pretty flattering.Dude! This just happened to me twice this week. Two different ladies scanned me and did double takes and smiled. I am not used to that kind of attention. I am married and in my 50's but it was still nice and unexpected.
I have had a couple of unsolicited, "you are looking good" from friends who can say that. The same kind of real friends that can say "you look rough" or "your fly is down" or "what's that smell? is it you? is it me?" Those kind of friends.
Who else has gotten unsolicited comments?
You hit the nail on the head. My baby face is gone, and it has changed how I am perceived at work. It has helped in some areas and hurt in others.The only downside for me after losing 62 lbs is that I now look my age. I kinda didn't before. I'm working on it with topical GHK-Cu mixed with The Ordinary and this stuff rocks. No real tightening, but my complexion has never been better.
And if you want to be invisible in society, wait until you get to your late 60's-70s. It's like people look through you now, not at you.