lastresort
GLP-1 Enthusiast
If it gets so bad, I sincerely urge you to speak to a professional
Soooo.... Ive lost a lot of weight, and have gotten a lil judgmental.
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lastresort
GLP-1 Enthusiast
War eagle
Gr33dyOctopus
GLP-1 Enthusiast
Thank you sir! Its been a long hard road for sure!!!
Gr33dyOctopus
GLP-1 Enthusiast
So much this!!!!!
I find it fascinating how looking good in clothes is how most folks here derive their esteem and fulfillment.
Now I know for a fact that we have never met and you certainly haven't seen my brother. So, a 117lb loss... Salut!
BNLFL
GLP-1 Specialist
Gr33dyOctopus
GLP-1 Enthusiast
Holy shit you have over 800 posts and you just joined like a month ago!! 🫣😆 Good for you motherfucker you fit right in!!!!
FarmgirlRebel
GLP-1 Enthusiast
I know I'm not obese anymore, but in my head, I still think I'm fat...I keep navigating towards Larges or XL shirts when I'm wearing mediums. Same with pants, I try on 12s...too baggy. 10s too baggy...and I can't wrap my head around being in a size 8
Gr33dyOctopus
GLP-1 Enthusiast
How i see myself is so crazy. I see really fat guys and find out they weigh 296 or 310, had them all beat. Cant believe I was ever that big. Now i hang out with my friends and i weigh less than all.of them, when i used to be the heaviest. Its such a mind fuck.
So glad, I have that Y chromosome. My head and reality reflect facts- 100% delusion free. I know I am obese, in my head, I still think I am obese, and I actually am obese.
The cursed writing gene is strong with me. Give me words I'll make salad, give me sentences, I'll make Apprentice.
Nowo I have to ask... Could it be that these grey peptides are messing your neurons?.
BNLFL
GLP-1 Specialist
He posts to see himself post. 🤣
lastresort
GLP-1 Enthusiast
Thats how it works for normal ppl unless you are a bodybuilder that likes white gym shirt for all occasions.
FarmgirlRebel
GLP-1 Enthusiast
Errrr that XY chromosome is kicking in there for sure, now you sound like my other half 😆
I'll admit, I like cute clothes especially now that I can fit into them. My main wardrobe is Barn Chic, which consists of jeans, cowboy boots and a t-shirt...but it's nice to have other things in the closet as well...maybe it's an XX thing.
The curse of being literate... 😈
Maybe true for Korean folks....no, thats not true..Just remembered my Korean bub in college. Guy was a legit badass. pretty sure, competitive athletes get those esteem needs met through avenues other than clothes 😉 But if you really think it works that way for "normal", I am now scared to consume fiber.I dont have T to lose.😒
See, @lastresort , immediate evidence provided.
Not maybe, definitely.. It's like if you make any changes when T-levels increase, thats what masculine is.
randompersonrandom
GLP-1 Specialist
I've worn a black men's wifebeater tank top as my at-home uniform for almost a decade. But now there is no size of men's wifebeaters that is small enough to fit me without being baggy and shapeless, so I just threw out like thirty of them the other day and replaced them with black cami tops. They look amazing; a wifebeater looks pretty enough on a woman if you wear it snug, but the camisole tops are head and shoulders prettier.
Also, re the tanks, they themselves were black, they did not specifically BELONG to black men. Though of course it would perfectly fine for black men to wear them except they were mine, they can get their own. White men too.
Sundaycandy
GLP-1 Apprentice
So fascinating the way body dysmorphia changes over time. At my largest, I really didn't comprehend how big I had gotten. I got good at posing, lighting, and angles, and convinced myself it wasn't that bad. Now, 50 pounds down, all I see in the mirror is my biggest version of myself.
Is it wrong that I have no trouble accepting that would fit you to a T.. A uniformed wifebeating black man..Yeah Random, it fits.
Of course, women love bad boys.
jordekorn
GLP-1 Enthusiast
I think it’s more about not having to think about it. It’s more peace of mind than “damn I look good”. It’s not squeezing into something, sweating, and having to change 4 times because you still look super fat instead of regular fat. Clothes become a non issue, when previous it was the struggle of every morning.
Maybe it’s just me, but I want to be cute enough to not be talked about by women, but not so cute men try to talk to me.🤗
Evidence you can never please women.
randompersonrandom
GLP-1 Specialist
If I woke up tomorrow as a black man, I would NEVER beat my wife. I frankly wouldn't dare. Who's to say I could even GET a wife, as a black man walking around brand new with the life experience of a middle-aged white woman who'd spent all her life mostly dating men? It would be so confusing to date me, and I'm sure I'd be pretty moody.
You would be like Mel Gibson in What Women Want- Ghetto version. And you would know what makes white women tick? and let's face it. You're right. Black men gravitate towards vanilla over chocolate these days or thats what Kevin Samuels said.
That's called being a woman, but I am so proud that you can now recognize the confusion plaguing mankind.
tryingzen
GLP-1 Novice
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Actually, being on GLP1s have made my anger at the system that has led to a society wide increase in weight across the last 40 years so much worse.
I am PISSED that we look at individuals instead of the society they live in. I am FURIOUS that we will shame and judge people walking down the street instead of pointing that judgement and shame at the corporations and society level living conditions that have created this situation.
Did you know that one of the stongest predictors of your BMI is the zip code you live in? And if you move, your weight will start to align with your new zip code. That is a SOCIETAL issue, not an individual one.
Furthermore, we have decades of data showing that it is functionally impossible to sustainably lose weight through "diet and exercise". More than 90% of people who attempt to lose weight will not only gain back the weight they lost but will gain MORE. This has shown true regardless of the diet or exercise plan. Yet we will shame and attack individuals at higher weights as if they are the problem.
Being on GLP1s have shown me that weight management was never about making "good choices" (the choices most of us made over and over and over and over and over again) and those people who maintained a lower weight were just biologically lucky-not hard working. They used the constant struggle and hard work of fat people to gain unearned priviledge and it makes me SO ANGRY that isn't being addressed-ever.
I will sing the praises of GLP1s from the rooftops and if anyone ever asks me I will flat out tell them that I am on a GLP1, I will always be on a GLP1, that GLP1s have a host of benefits beyond weight loss and they should probably look into the benefits. But I will NEVER shame a bigger individual because they probably work harder at managing their weight than I ever have or will ever in the future.
lastresort
GLP-1 Enthusiast
I can't recall the names but there are a few body builders that call out a body dysmorphia but in the opposite direction...you never are muscular or vascular enough. The constant needs to be bigger is very real amongst the community, but they never will spell it out because as some women put it eloquently, "men will do anything but seek a therapy". And that is sad to see as a man myself because we are cornering ourselves into a darker corner.
Sundaycandy
GLP-1 Apprentice
It is tragic. I agree that too many men are expected to just suck it up, thinking that they are alone in their suffering because nobody is willing to speak out. A lot more people are going through the same struggles than they likely think.
BlueDog55
GLP-1 Apprentice
I find myself feeling sorry for really overweight people I am 6'5" at one time 14yrs ago I was 400+ I started working on myself, get on TRT got back into the gym and lost 60lbs and kept it off for years I rollercostered between 325 and 350 for years then got down to 295 lbs about 5 1/2 years ago went back to 330 then in Nov 2025 started Carnivore got down to 305 then Jan 2026 started Reta by early Feb I lost 30lbs I say all that to make the poing I know how hard it is for people. What I get really worked up about is seeing Kids and Teens who are Obese. I kinda get mad at the parents because if a kid is Obese it is the parents fault. Oh and I hate seeing the shopping cart full of garbage food. But I keep it inside because I know it's not my business.
^^^^this...in BOLD
Yo man, I feel you. That shift is way more common than people admit. When you grind off a massive amount of weight (330 / 213 is no joke, KICK ASS congrats), I think the brain does this weird thing where it becomes hyper critical of the old version of yourself still walking around. It’s like your mind is protecting the new you by judging the old habits so you don’t slide back. I’ve seen it with quitting drinking, smoking, AND weight loss.
The truth is most people aren’t where you are because they haven’t gone through the same pain, discipline, and obsession you have. That creates a natural gap in understanding.
Your looking amazing, Stay hungry.
PS; I was going to also post my arms / GUNS but they are way to small compared to your... 😛
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Finally, someone with sense...Wait!!! Do you need CTE to become sensible? Say it ain't so.
Yup, CTE for sure.
My man...do it, crush him, see him driven before you, and relish the lamentation of his women. I will bring the popcorn.
Are you taking enclomiphene? I heard you get vision damage with that one.
That's the most criminal shit I have ever seen done. I have watched t-2 over 150 times, and now I will never look at it the same again.
