Until someone has a problem, I think many just assume & judge.
Everyone's story is different. I don't judge anyone, it all stinks & feel for all that have this. I grew up with very weight centered parents & that really mattered to them. Younger I was never really overweight but had dieted since young. Hearing things from your father "Why aren't you as skinny as her". I'm sure I ruined my metabolism. Since my mid 20s I could no longer loose weight.
For Yearsss now dieting & exercise (2-3 classes a day 5 days a week + walking, sauna, gluten free, no soda, only drinking water, not eating fast food, no fried food, tracking closely average 900-1,000 cal a day, etc). Nothing I could do would allow me to lose weight. Dieting (tried every one under the sun & never stopped). Even no appetite, barely eating could not lose. Drs etc no answers. Not even on Phentermine, etc. I'm very new (about 5 weeks), but this is the 1st time ever that I lost 8lbs so far.