The difference between Reddit and this forum, in my experience, goes beyond just having humans behind the keyboards on both platforms. It’s about the culture and how people choose to engage.
If I can be completely honest, I typically prefer to observe and learn here rather than post. For a long time, this forum felt like a reliable, welcoming place where I could find information and support. However, that perception shifted when I attempted to participate and was met with hostility—not for anything inflammatory, but simply for expressing support for someone another member strongly opposes.
Right or wrong, the way I was treated speaks volumes about those who responded, especially given the way they often present themselves as open and helpful. It completely validated my initial hesitation to engage here. It’s disappointing how quickly a space you admire and a group you respect can lose their value when hostility replaces constructive dialogue.
So, to answer the question: the key difference is the willingness to truly help and guide others. And sadly, that seems to have been lost here.