Reta overactive libido

randompersonrandom said:
I swear to God, my favorite thing is ending relationships with dudes who aren't it and aren't going to become it. That first six months after you cut the rope and don't have that rock around your neck are so exhilarating. "OH MY GOD I DO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT ANYMORE, THAT PROBLEM IS NOT MY PROBLEM!"
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You right 😂

I hate it because he is absolutely the best sex I've ever had and we were so compatible, been together since 2019, then he gained weight, which is FINE, from a visual perspective, is tired all the time, finds out he has high blood pressure, has his T tested and he's low low, but instead of doing literally anything about any of it, he vents to his friend who I very strongly suspect is on reta and T anyway and too proud to admit it, and that friend gives him a list of all these supplements he should try so he spends 2 weeks shitting his guts out thanks to those and declares it unfixable. 🙄 I'm not spending my 30s having sex every two weeks so 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
randompersonrandom said:
If y'all lived in Texas, I swear I'd end up having dinner with you and your wife at least once a month. She and I would make each other laugh so LOUD.
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You 2 would be besties and yall could go out and i can drink with my dog. My brother lived in El Paso and i would visit him when i lived in Colorado.. Spent a weekend in San Antonio for a back surgery consult at Ft. Sam too.
 
ochoseis said:
You right 😂

I hate it because he is absolutely the best sex I've ever had and we were so compatible, been together since 2019, then he gained weight, which is FINE, from a visual perspective, is tired all the time, finds out he has high blood pressure, has his T tested and he's low low, but instead of doing literally anything about any of it, he vents to his friend who I very strongly suspect is on reta and T anyway and too proud to admit it, and that friend gives him a list of all these supplements he should try so he spends 2 weeks shitting his guts out thanks to those and declares it unfixable. 🙄 I'm not spending my 30s having sex every two weeks so 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Girl, if I wrote a book titled "Dudes who were the best thing that ever happened to me for awhile, and then stopped being that, and were never that again," I would have to go to the gym WAY more often than I do to be able to carry it from room to room.
 
Rolltide61 said:
Tell me more.......in detail.
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Ask to dm
woundcarping said:
I haven't heard this, I've heard/read about the opposite accredited to anhedonia/dopamine changes.

Experience wise, I still interested, but I've found myself less willing to put up with bullshit along the path to it. I've had a "buddy" for years, but she's a taxing person to converse with and it looks like I've finally had enough, at least for now.

I made a joke off something from 3 days before, she didn't think it was funny... it's not worth the hassle. I'm more patient now with TRT, but intolerant of drama... irony is TRT isn't bad for the libido.
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That was my thinking for the OP, feeling yourself in your new body with new attention moreso than Reta directly affecting libido.
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Taxing person to converse with lol, love it.
 
ochoseis said:
You right 😂

I hate it because he is absolutely the best sex I've ever had and we were so compatible, been together since 2019, then he gained weight, which is FINE, from a visual perspective, is tired all the time, finds out he has high blood pressure, has his T tested and he's low low, but instead of doing literally anything about any of it, he vents to his friend who I very strongly suspect is on reta and T anyway and too proud to admit it, and that friend gives him a list of all these supplements he should try so he spends 2 weeks shitting his guts out thanks to those and declares it unfixable. 🙄 I'm not spending my 30s having sex every two weeks so 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Give him 2cc of trenbolone, a cialis and some pt141.... dont complain when he chases you around the kitchen table 36hours though.
 
woundcarping said:
That was my thinking for the OP, feeling yourself in your new body with new attention moreso than Reta directly affecting libido.
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I think that could be the case for a more insecure or self conscious woman. That is not me.

woundcarping said:
feeling yourself in your new body
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Trust and believe, that is accomplished MANY times throughout the day. 🤷‍♀️
 
Beardboost said:
Its my fault, I recently watched Subservience with Megan Fox, now every dream is Robotic women that come from outer space offering all services 😂 Its so strange because I never remember my dreams, but these.... I remember in such detail!!!
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Reminds me of an old star trek episode where the Shatmaster was hooking up with amazon space chicks....
 
ThatFatGirl said:
I think that could be the case for a more insecure or self conscious woman. That is not me.


Trust and believe, that is accomplished MANY times throughout the day. 🤷‍♀️
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One thing im certain of. This is the most active thread on the forum currently and i expect responses for the next 18months.
 
Airborne Daddy said:
One thing im certain of. This is the most active thread on the forum currently and i expect responses for the next 18months.
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The tit thread is still going in fits and spurts. It would have gone more steady if not for all the yelling about how various dudes felt about tits in general and what their own general preferences of tit sizes were. Which sort of proved the universal law that women will talk about tits FOR AS LONG AS/UNTIL dudes try to turn them doing so into some kind of forum-based petting zoo, and then we will grimace, take our tits and go elsewhere because dude, quit making it weird.
 
randompersonrandom said:
UNTIL dudes try to turn them doing so into some kind of forum-based petting zoo
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You honestly expected something different?

We are actually good people. We will lay on top of you when the bullets start flying. We will romantically wine and dine you at a fine restaurant. We will take out the trash and paint the living room. We will come get you if your car breaks down and have it towed for you.

But if a couple of us get together you might as well accept that we are like little boys in a man's body.
 
Rolltide61 said:
You honestly expected something different?

We are actually good people. We will lay on top of you when the bullets start flying. We will romantically wine and dine you at a fine restaurant. We will take out the trash and paint the living room. We will come get you if your car breaks down and have it towed for you.

But if a couple of us get together you might as well accept that we are like little boys in a man's body.
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I can name twenty men who would not start making it uncomfortable for women if they talked about something like that, and certainly wouldn't double down on it if they did. I expect better of men because I know so many great men. You can either be a great man or you can be a little boy in a man's body and expect me to expect less of you, but you can't have it both ways.

And you personally made me pretty fuckin uncomfortable in that thread, and I strongly considered putting you on ignore over it. I was nice about it and made a joke, because ha ha, what a good sport I am, but that "you know you like it" out of nowhere was gross and weird and put me RIGHT out of that thread.
 
LabRatBarbie said:
So I’m curious if anybody else has experienced increased “urges” while taking Reta. I’ve read post that suggest it normally decreases your sexual desires. It is doing the exact opposite, I’m really having a difficult time concentrating on anything else. It’s a bit much and I need to get it under control.
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I have struggled with this MY ENTIRE LIFE. So much so, I have lost relationships because of it. In my case, it is a blessing that reta kills my sex drive.

I don't know how long you have been on reta but maybe in your case, things will get better with time.
 
I feel like I have unfortunately only seen the opposite with my partner going from low libido to even lower libido. Basically never have sex / intimacy time...
 
Retatrutide has significantly reduced my sex drive. But since I started HGH, I've noticed a considerable improvement. I also like having less sex drive since I always have plenty anyway, haha.
 
randompersonrandom said:
The tit thread is still going in fits and spurts. It would have gone more steady if not for all the yelling about how various dudes felt about tits in general and what their own general preferences of tit sizes were. Which sort of proved the universal law that women will talk about tits FOR AS LONG AS/UNTIL dudes try to turn them doing so into some kind of forum-based petting zoo, and then we will grimace, take our tits and go elsewhere because dude, quit making it weird.
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Omg.... i was a tit man till i hit 35 and then i realized its all bout dat ass. Still, im curiously aroused with the tit forum based petting zoo... you think im playin but i will post the tee shirt that says "forum petting zoo" on the front and "garden variety fuckery" on the back.
 
BNLFL said:
What, tits and horny women threads. Oh my.
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Hahaaaa, you make your jokes, but this isn’t funny. Well… if it wasn’t me I’d probably laugh too but tbh it’s extremely difficult to leave my house. Wanting to jump the first fine ass motha fu*kr that walks past me. 😮‍💨🥵🤯
 
LabRatBarbie said:
So I’m curious if anybody else has experienced increased “urges” while taking Reta. I’ve read post that suggest it normally decreases your sexual desires. It is doing the exact opposite, I’m really having a difficult time concentrating on anything else. It’s a bit much and I need to get it under control.
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LabRatKen needs to step it up 😂
 
Airborne Daddy said:
you think im playin but i will post the tee shirt that says "forum petting zoo" on the front and "garden variety fuckery" on the back.
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The fact that you very well MIGHT show up in a T-shirt that says that is EXACTLY why you never actually make it weird. 😀 I'll buy one if there's ever a meetup!
 
Smiter said:
Apparently, the problem is more severe in ADD and ADHD patients and it works on the dopamine pathway. Maybe you want to check on impulse controlling dopamine modulators
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My wife has ADHD and starts her Reta journey and lifting tomorrow...
I don't know when I'm going to die...
But it's going to be Death by Snu Snu
 
LabRatBarbie said:
So I’m curious if anybody else has experienced increased “urges” while taking Reta. I’ve read post that suggest it normally decreases your sexual desires. It is doing the exact opposite, I’m really having a difficult time concentrating on anything else. It’s a bit much and I need to get it under control.
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Quite the opposite! I've been on Reta for going on four months and it's shut down my libido almost completely. Wish it were different!
 
LabRatBarbie said:
Hahaaaa, you make your jokes, but this isn’t funny. Well… if it wasn’t me I’d probably laugh too but tbh it’s extremely difficult to leave my house. Wanting to jump the first fine ass motha fu*kr that walks past me. 😮‍💨🥵🤯
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All good, young lady. I remember when my wife was like this. I'm sure there's ways to help this situation you're in.
 
ochoseis said:
Not on reta, but I have the same issue on tirzepatide.

I've always had hormonal problems though and an increased libido thanks to PCOS but it had mostly calmed down to "normal."

It's very difficult for me to tell what is due to tirzepatide, the weight loss (I went nuts for awhile when I lost 70lbs and ended a whole 7 year relationship the last time), heading toward mid-30s, being off birth control (except I never got the libido killer side effect from it like a lot of women do), but it is frustrating and I feel you 100%.

It's even worse because my boyfriend is 10 years older than me, struggling with low T, high blood pressure, and being overweight and would rather listen to his friend who is a supplement bro vs. actually treating ANYTHING so our sex life is stupid so I'm trying to come to terms with this relationship heading towards the end too, which is a whole vent you did not ask for!

edit cause I mixed people up ignore me lol
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My wife is 14 years younger than me, when we met I was a 35 year old gym rat and in great shape and had no problem keeping up with her. Needless to say, the sex was amazing and often. But due to a number of factors, including most of my laziness, not making time to workout, and low testosterone my sex drive fell off. She complained to me about it. So I started lifting again, alot. But it didn't do the trick.

There are very few things in life that make me happier than to satisfy my beautiful wife. So, I stepped up and went to a urologist who, after reviewing my pathetic testosterone levels, prescribed me testosterone. Did I feel insecure about having to take testosterone? A little bit at first but I have a good doctor with excellent bedside manner who let me know how many of his patients get the same treatment and after my wife's rave reviews that shit went away fast - her opinion is the only one I truly care about. The only side effect of the testosterone are the fucking pregnancy scares 😂
 
LabRatBarbie said:
Wanting to jump the first fine ass motha fu*kr that walks past me
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I'm reasonably certain that the reason most guys would laugh at that is the fact that for men, that's our normal state of affairs. We all wanna jump the first fine ass skank that walks into our vision.

With one caveat: The above rule only applies when the fine ass is attached to a woman we don't know. There's a reason why the following maxim is eternal: Show me the hottest woman in the world, and I'll show you the guy who's fed up with her shyte.
 
randompersonrandom said:
I can name twenty men who would not start making it uncomfortable for women if they talked about something like that, and certainly wouldn't double down on it if they did. I expect better of men because I know so many great men. You can either be a great man or you can be a little boy in a man's body and expect me to expect less of you, but you can't have it both ways.

And you personally made me pretty fuckin uncomfortable in that thread, and I strongly considered putting you on ignore over it. I was nice about it and made a joke, because ha ha, what a good sport I am, but that "you know you like it" out of nowhere was gross and weird and put me RIGHT out of that thread.
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I'm devastated.
 
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