oh yeah, hard agree--nobody NEEDS to tell anybody unless they're like me and psychologically incapable of NOT raving about whatever they're excited about today. But so many people talked to me about not telling anyone because people would judge them. So many people still think of it as "cheating." Because apparently you should HAVE to struggle to be a normal weight. I mean, good luck putting that sh on me, but I'm pretty fortunate in that there's no one in my life who would bother trying to. I come from a very small family and am very choosy with my friends, so there's no jerk in my inner circle to make me feel bad.