Upset husband wants me to quit

[hexagonal]

And this is why there are so many single mothers out there. No doubt avoiding an ounce of accountability.

I would argue that if a man divorces a woman, or pushes her to divorce, because he is incapable of letting her make her own decisions about her healthcare, he is the one who is refusing to be accountable to his vows.

I can understand wanting to avoid experimental drugs or the grey market, and I think it would be reasonable to voice those concerns, particularly if there are children in the picture, but if he wants to control her ability to have compounded or name brand tirz, that says far more about him than it does anyone else.

 

[MsGizmo]

Even the crazy ones with dirty feet.

lol .. have we met before?

 

[randompersonrandom]

I can't help you ease his worries, because your marriage is not any of the three I've experienced, and I can't even really advise. I CAN weigh in on what I'd do; I'd do the best I could to explain why I think this is the best call for me, answer any questions of his to the best of my ability and promise to research any that I didn't know the answers to and get back with him (and keep that promise), let him know that I love him and that I love his concern, agree to anything that I can easily do to help him feel less anxious about the situation, and also not argue with him about anything that I've decided. Because there's really nothing to argue ABOUT; this is my body, I've put in the reading and made my own choices, and that's how it is. That's a subject I'd close, but gently.

Again, my hypothetical situation is different from yours; I'm five years out from my last marriage, and I believe that one probably will BE my last marriage, because I very much like being my own mistress and saying yes to connection but no to partnership. I hope you find what your right answer is.

 

[AndyPanda]

Increasingly women are saying that being single is a happier life..

Those ones should definitely stay that way then.

 

[AndyPanda]

Threaten to spend money on couples counseling or prescription Zepbound.

And in counseling, be sure to explain how she put their business all over the internet for strangers to chime in because she trusts randos more than the man she married.