I’m not the OP. And I’m not now, and never have, inquired as to what those two things are.
I get that this is delicate ground, and I’m not trying to rules lawyer anything here. My question to Zippity was mostly to make sure I wasn’t stepping in to defend someone who had misbehaved out of my sight and was now falsely claiming innocence.
What I see in this thread is someone who appears to be trying to understand the system and work within it in good faith. And they’re being punished (at the least, chastised) for not knowing what they don’t know. That’s a challenging environment to operate in.
Moderation is difficult at this scale. I get that. Many folks here show an abundance of patience for the same questions repeated seemingly without end, and I’m really grateful for the information that’s shared, and the genuine desire shown to help new people onboard not just into this community, but into everything it represents. I’m really appreciative.
Adherence to rules that aren’t made clear seems an unreasonable expectation, and it looks like maybe an opportunity to clarify things for new members. Having to reverse engineer a rule set by hitting your head against a “you can’t post that” message is awkward, and doesn’t seem in line with everything else this group does to educate, inform, and keep people safe and growing.
That’s all I’m trying to get at here.